Many Christian singles think that what they are seeking in a life partner is very different from what secular singles are seeking in a partner. Wrong! Apart from Christian values and celibacy before marriage, what the secular guy is wanting in a woman is no different from the single believer. Read on to find out how you can find your Christian life partner with the same beliefs as yourself.
Single men are seeking an attractive, slim woman, who is healthy and active. He has wanted the same thing for thousands of years. He wants a woman who will procreate and to be able to do that, she must be healthy and look healthy by having clear skin, shiny hair, clear eyes, good teeth and of course she must be within a healthy weight range.
When he is past the procreation stage in life, he doesn’t turn around and say “now I can go for unhealthy looking women”. He always remains attracted to healthy looking women.
What do Christian single women want? Of course singleChristian women want a single Christian guy with the same Christian values as themselves,
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Women, if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably heard things like “you’re just too intimidating to guys” or “you have too strong of opinions” or “men don’t want smart, strong women like you.” If you haven’t heard these things, I’m so glad for you. Comments like these seem to suggest that it’s wrong to be a strong woman, or that it’s looked down upon to be brave, opinionated, outspoken, or well-educated.
The alternative is weak women. Even just writing those words together makes me cringe. Is that what we really want in our society today? Really? Is that what Christian men should be desiring?
Paul Maxwell asks the same question: “Do we want women to be weak? And the answer must forever be, on the basis of Scripture, ‘May it never be.’ Strong women are as vital as strong men to God’s purpose in the church.”
It’s not just because I’m a woman that I agree with him. When I read the stories of women in the Bible, I don’t see weakness. I don’t see women being quiet or holding back or living in fear. I see women like Mary humbly and bravely giving their lives for the will of the Lord, saying “May your word to me be fulfilled.”
http://www.crosswalk.com/blogs/christian-trends/3-reasons-christian-men-should-love-strong-women.html
Have you been praying to God for a Christian husband? There are probably many ways for you to find him—but according to Proverbs 18:22—he’s supposed to find you! This allows for your full and complete focus on God to lead the right man to you. Not the perfect man, but the one who is perfect for you.
So what happens when he shows up? Other than seeking wise counsel from godly men and women, you need to be prayerful and discerning. The following character traits are meant to be a guideline not a legalistic rule (grace, grace, and more grace!). How does this potential husband demonstrate the following traits?
His love for God
“This is love for God: to keep his commands” (1 John 2:16)
Is his passion for God first and foremost evident in his life or is it just a colorful background in his busy life? You are compelled to serve God with all your heart because of the love that He has shown you through salvation. You want a husband who shares your same intensity. His capacity to love you as Christ loves the church will diminish if his love for God is weak from the beginning.
http://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/10-character-traits-a-woman-should-look-for-in-a-christian-husband/What do I look for in a Christian single man has been the title of this article. And most important this man must have a deep love for God and this is going to be demonstrated on the way that he treats other people.
